At middle age, we all face the fact that our place in the world is evolving as we get older and our bodies and faces change. Narcissists are confronted with the decline of their sense of importance in the world and the fading of their good looks in a way that can be particularly devastating to them. There may be a frantic grasp at staying young by narcissists who have lived their lives trading on their physical appearance to be relevant and noticed. It happens on blogs and in the media as (more...

 I was first introduced to visualization when I was eight years old. I saw my best friend's teenage sister, Tammy, sitting on the floor, legs crossed, meditating in the middle of her bedroom. When I asked Tammy what she was doing, she said in a serious, soft-spoken voice, "I'm focusing on what my husband will look like." This young teenage girl was convinced that, if she concentrated on him once a week, it would bring love into her life and give her the future she desired. Then, when I was...

Saying "I Do" can be a libido booster, so he might want even more sex now. You've stopped obsessing about how you look, so you're enjoying sex more than ever! It's easy to get lazy about taking your birth control-that surprise pregnancy is less of a big deal now. You'll do things that you never thought you'd do (hello, sex toys!) to keep things exciting. Quickies are the new norm, and you love 'em. How many calories does sex burn? You have random romps that are so hot it's like the first...